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She told us repeatedly she was against this but her sister was certain. As she drove off, after our lengthy visit with her, John and I were saddened, but we all prayed. I had given Sarah the "Focus on The Family" literature with the stages and pictures of pregnancy to review.Labels: Sidewalk Counseling stories
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Teresa and I were about to leave at 11:00 am and closed with some final prayers when we saw a car pause waiting for traffic to pass. This car was turning into the center we decided to stay. We both approached the car and gave them our information. I looked up and saw another car that was turning in and told Teresa to keep talking to the people in the first car and I'll get the second car.
It turned out that the woman driving was coming for an abortion and her friend was in the passenger seat. The child belonged to her friend and she lit up when I asked her about him. They were both Christian and I said to her friend, "You must know what a great blessing children bring to our lives."
She nodded and pulled out some paper by her seat. It was an Internet printout of aborted babies. She said she had been showing it to her friend and brought her son in the car with her to try to stop her friend. At this time a car was honking from the street to go into the clinic, so I told them they could park and come out and talk to me some more. With a last thought I blurted, "The White Rose is just 10 min away and you can follow me there if you like."
The Holy Spirit did some serious action that morning because I have never asked for someone to follow me, and that day I did. We got them checked into the White Rose, we talked/prayed some more, and Teresa and I went out to lunch to celebrate!
The next story is a bit different. A very young couple parked at the abortion center and the girl came over to me a little curious about what we were doing. I told her about the White Rose next door. The guy was dawdling at the car getting dressed, pulling his shoes and belt on.
He looked over at us sarcastically and I asked her if that was the father. She looked at him with a similar look and nodded. There was tension between them and it was apparent. He called her back over and she started walking in with him. I called out that, "No one has the right to force her to do this, this was her baby. Her baby to love." She stopped ,looked at him and said, "You hear her? You're taking me over to that clinic and we're goin now!"
He kind of slunk around just following her, trying to be cool as she walked back over to me. I walked them into the White Rose, spoke to her and then spoke to him more after she had gone in.
It's been a very growing and prayerful summer!
Submitted by McKenna
Catholic Pro-Life Committee Sidewalk Counseling Summer Intern
August 8, 2006
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Story #2
Last Saturday morning, Peter came out with me to pray and counsel. We were praying a rosary, handing out literature and at one point, another car came through the alley towards the clinic (thankfully, this particular clinic is right next store to the White Rose crisis pregnancy center). I began speaking to a mother and her 17 year old daughter. The girl was looking down at her hands, kinda scoffing while the mother began to nod slowly. When I handed her the rosary I was praying on and told her I had been praying for her, tears started to stream down her face. I told them to pull into the White Rose parking lot and we continued to talk. Her mom said something like, "but she's so young" and I said something like, "but that's why she needs you to support her right now and stand by her to have this baby." The girl began to share that she had friends who had had an abortion and they all regretted their decision. I kept emphasizing that the women I saw walk out of the clinic (and this is all true!) were crying or sobbing or so sad. I also remember saying to them (after the mom mentioned that being a single parent was hard, etc.), "Do you have shelter? Do you have a car? No, but mom does? Then you have two more things than most women who have their babies."
Soon, after talking for a bit the girl looked up at me with a big smile on her face and said "let's go get a sonogram!!" and she jumped out of the car and gave me a big hug!! Wow, God is so amazing!! I walked them up stairs to the White Rose, talking about faith in God and the goodness of the White Rose center. The counselor that had seen them later said that during the video (which they show to all pregnant women, informing them on what abortion really is and the terrible effects of it) they were actually laughing -- she said that the girl was SO relieved that she didn't have to go into that terrible clinic! When they left, they each gave Peter and I a hug and thanked us and the mom (of the girl) said she'd be in touch so we could throw a baby shower together!! Wow!! I want to emphasize that I have been praying with much more dedication out in front of these clinics, praying to be humble like Christ, and to be used as his instrument. I have seen even more amazing things besides these two beautiful stories -- unbelievable!! You wouldn't believe the spiritual battles out there. I truly believe we have to pray for the conversion of people entering these places -- you wouldn't believe, sometimes, how much hope they need and how much they need to be touched by God's love!!
Please continue to pray for me this summer, as I counsel (Wed. - Sat. mornings of this week, too) -- and please pray for all the Dallas sidewalk counselors -- it can be scary to be out there, but SUCH a blessing when you have the confidence to step forward and see what God can do!! But most of all, it is PRAYER!! Please pray -- we may not see the good it does until we get to heaven!!
submitted by Lauren Werda
Catholic Pro-Life Committee Sidewalk Counselor Summer Intern
July 10, 2006
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I have felt the overwhelming power of prayer in my life many times and am convinced of its saving nature. The heart, the source of who we are, is also the source of all prayer. As the catechism states (#2563) “…. The heart is the place of decision, deeper than our psychic drives. It is the place of truth, where we choose life or death. It is the place of encounter, because as image of God we live in relation: it is the place of covenant.”
On the days that I am at Aaron’s, I am paired up with Carol Seward, the Catholic Pro-Life Committee’s Director of Sidewalk Counseling. Carol counsels and I pray. It’s a good match. Both elements, praying and counseling, are necessary to ensure that all the graces available to save the lives of the babies and women inside are fully present.
At Aaron’s, you can stand at the far end of the sidewalk and look into the windows where the actual abortion procedure is performed. This is the best place to pray. Although the mill usually keeps the shades closed, it is sometimes possible to peek in and try to make eye contact with the people inside. | ![]() |
The sidewalk counselor, by contrast, will stand at the opposite end of the sidewalk, where the cars pull in, to talk to the people as they go inside. It is best to stay out of the way of the counselors and let them do their jobs, so I keep to the far end of the sidewalk.
On this particular day, I had been standing in my usual spot for about an hour, when I noticed Carol waving furiously at me to come and talk to her. Next to her were two women, one in her 20’s and another older lady who might have been her mother. As I walked up to them, I saw that the younger lady was crying. I did not recognize them nor had I ever seen them before.
Carol said to me, “This young lady was inside on the operating table getting ready to have her abortion when she decided to look out the window. She saw you standing there praying the Rosary and decided on the spot that if someone was willing to stand there and pray for her ,someone she did not know, then that must mean she was not supposed to have this abortion.” She got off the operating table, put her clothes back on and came outside with her mother to speak with Carol.
The young lady’s name was Anna. It turns out that her mother, Maria, had been trying to convince her not to have the abortion but had driven her to the mill in an attempt to be supportive. Maria said she told her daughter at the sign-in window inside the mill that she should not do this. Anna was very reluctant to have the abortion but felt compelled because she was graduating college in the fall and did not want the child to be in the way. She told us that the pressure from her mother, plus seeing someone standing outside praying for her, someone she didn’t know, forced her to get dressed and leave the abortion operating room.
We talked to them for a little bit and re-assured them how what good news it was that she was expecting her first child. She was 8 weeks along and Carol showed her an 8 week baby model accurately showing what was growing inside of her. Anna and Maria were fascinated at the detail shown on the model and asked questions about the baby’s development. Neither one of them was Catholic and did not want one of our rosaries, but reassured us that they were good Christian people and now looked forward to having the child.
Anna’s baby is due in November. I hope I get a chance to see her (or him) when she is born. But if not, then I will be happy knowing that the power of prayer saved the life of this innocent child, that Anna listened to her heart rather than her psychic drive and that the Kingdom was advanced just a little bit further.
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I asked again, “why is it bad timing”? "A" finally said, “I want this baby, but my wife does not”. I said “have you prayed about this together”? "A" said they had not. I said “that is the real problem, you are trying to handle this on your own”. "A" said, “Yes I believe this is true”.
I asked if we could pray right now for peace of mind and for the healthy and well being of the mom. "A" said yes. Since I was leaning in the window on the mom’s side I took her hand and began to pray. “Sweet Jesus, please protect the health and well being of this beautiful mom and her child. Please give "A" the strength to be the father that you have called him to be. In the name of Jesus please bind up any confusion about this decision and help "A" and his wife, the mother of this beautiful baby, make the right decision, in Jesus name”.
I said to "A", you need to be the man and realize that a woman may say “we cannot handle this right now”. What she is saying is "'A', I am not sure you are strong enough to take care of us”. "A", can you be the man and do what you are supposed to do? If someone were to do harm to your wife, would you stand by and let them harm her, or would you do, as I am sure you would, stand in the door of your home and give your life for your wife? "A" said, “of course I would protect her”.
I said, “Then you must protect her now, and protect your child in her. When God gives you a child, you cannot second guess HIS wisdom. You cannot toss out the precious gift God has given you. How do you know this is not the only child God will give you. Do you know how many marriages fall apart from the trauma such as this? Do you really think you will be able to look at your wife again in the same way, or she to you, knowing the life of your child was taken for convenience or bad timing?"
"Will you take five minutes and go someplace quiet and pray with your wife alone. Take her from this evil place." He left. A few minutes later he returned. He drove in. Jackie and I nearly fainted. We prayed out loud for Jesus and HIS mom to come rescue this child and claim this mom. A moment later they drove out and stopped. "A" rolled down his window and said “we are going to keep our baby. I can handle this”. We praised him for being the man God called him to be. We reassured him how pleased God will be with this beautiful act of unselfishness. We again offered help, but he said they did not need it. I gave him my own business card and cell number, and they left. Praise God! If Jackie had not realized they were a couple searching for the Abortion Mill we would not have had this opportunity. Praise God for Jackie's wisdom.
submitted by Michael Rankin
January 26, 2006
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